“ When you are sorrowful look again in your heart , you will see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight ” Khalil Gibran
Have you ever experienced that feeling of pain ? Well, I have .
When we have undiluted love for someone, at times it gets to the point of suffocating the other . Not being able to live without someone isn’t healthy at all . Not for us and definitely not for the ones we love . Space and trust are two very important ingredients in a successful relationship.
It isn’t that easy either, specially at those times when we have a lot of free time and the other person doesn’t . But then it is something we need to deal with on our own . A person not being there should never influence our happiness. I believe we should use the time to do all those things we enjoy doing . Those little things that make us smile . Let not our love confine someone instead let them be . Clinging onto someone is not acceptable and will get us nowhere. And also too many expectations should be shown the door . I really mean it . Life is a beautiful gift not to be wasted over petty things .
Emotional detachment in a positive way , of course , will help us a lot in being passive . By doing so there will not only be more love but also more respect . It will make them realise how lucky they are . There will be no lies , only love ,trust and a completely honest relationship . And such love will never ever be a source of our sorrow .
After all being in love is such a wonderful feeling and nothing can ever beat that !